Alright I'm gonna make this post a little more personal, to vent actually. Blogs are good for that, lol.
When communication with a dude has dropped off, say over a period of 2 weeks, the reason is usually one of two possibilities.
a. He's got a mad busy schedule, and shit's preventing him from
paying you some proper attention.
b. things are changing and gradually the changes are being
put into place.
Choice A, there is some plausibility to that I feel. I know there have been days when I'm running my ass around and I barely got time to even LOOK at my phone. But damn, those days dont go on consecutively for two weeks.
Choice B, this is the more likely of reasons. Maybe he's not getting what he wants from you, whether it's sex or participation in a relationship, and it's changing how he feels. This happens with everybody, we as humans don't get what our little heart desires, and we decide that maybe that's no longer what we want., because we're not getting it when we want it. Okay that's cool, but maybe you could actually be a little forthcoming with it?
I've heard that "Oh I've been busy...it's nothing personal" shit line before. HAH. You act like my ass can't read between the lines. Pleaseee muchacho. I done heard that before enough to recognize what it really means.
And regardless, if you really want to talk to someone and just say hi during a busy day? You do that.
But it's cool though, maybe I'm gonna go get busy or something too. ;)
Ladies, where do YOU draw the line?
P.S. Lol,I should mention too, as to not make it look like I haven't been making an effort with the dude, the fact of the matter is I have. Lotta unreturned calls or even acknowledgement of the calls...